Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Things I Want to Teach My Daughter

Things I Want to Teach My Daughter

  • Beauty is a state of mind, not a state of body.


  • The benefit of the doubt is sometimes the best gift we can give our friends.
  • There will always be mean girls – that doesn’t mean we find a tower and Rapunzel ourselves away from the world.
  • Your daddy has loved you better and longer than any boy ever will.
  • You’re always welcome in my wardrobe.
  • The world needs your point of view.
  • Food is a joy.
  • Your body is strong and capable of more than you can imagine right now.
  • You can never have too much ice cream.
  • Music makes everything better.
  • Continue to dance.
  • You’ll never be too old for me to rock you.
  • Nothing you tell me will ever make me want to stop hearing from you.
  • No prayer request is ever too small, too silly or too embarrassing to share.
  • Washing your face every night is the best kind of beauty routine.
  • Sunscreen – you have my fair skin.
  • Mr. Darcy and popcorn make for a perfect evening.
  • A good movie can change how you understand someone else.
  • Words can build bridges between people.
  • Home is not where we live but who we love.
  • Your name holds a special meaning for us.
  • Inevitably I will splinter your heart. But we will tweeze it out together.
  • You taught me how to feel beautiful.



  •  Staying up late to read a good book is never time wasted.
  • Good girls aren’t boring.
  • A great mascara is always worth the investment.  Same goes with moisturizer.
  • The best way never to worry about anyone gossiping about you is never to gossip about anybody.
  • Saying sorry first is a sign of strength not a weakness.
  • I’m on your side; especially on the days when it doesn’t feel like it.
  • Your body is not just yours. It’s a gift for your husband. I promise it’s worth waiting to unwrap together.
  • Sex for the first time will require a beautiful sense of humor and a partner who’s in it for life.
  • The movies lie. Passion isn’t a contorted exercise on a marble staircase, it’s doing the dishes together and lying with your feet touching in bed at the end of a long day
  • Marriage is an act of courage, commitment and sacrifice. It’s also the most fun you’ll ever have with your best friend.
  • Always fight fair. But don’t be afraid to fight.
  • Long hair requires a really good conditioner.
  • God says He has made all things beautiful – that includes you, my love – no matter how you feel about your body.
  • You can never go wrong with a good pair of jeans.
  • I love the curves you gave me.
  • Sometimes you need a "cry-night."
  • Christian women aren’t immune from cliques. Love on regardless.
  • Bad hair days are inevitable.
  • A strong man is never threatened by a strong woman.



  •  Go big even if it means failing big. Especially then.
  • Be the friend you wish you had.
  • Travel.
  • You can’t control what others think about you. Let it go.
  • I will be your best friend. But I will be your mother more.
  • Stop for sunsets.
  • Prince Charming isn’t a fairytale, he’s a myth.

  • Daughters teach us about our mothers. You made me and grandma closer than we were even before I had you.
  • Jesus loves you for you. Not for your ability to bear children.
  • Husbands need a wife. Not another mom.
  • It’s true what they say about childbirth and then some.
  • Love waits.
  • Patience is never wasted.
  • Don’t just Instagram your life. Live it.
  • Dad will be the one helping you with math homework.
  • Don’t be afraid of a broken heart.
  • The only thing holding you back from making a difference in the world will be yourself.



  • Girlfriends are the best kind of free therapy there is.
  • Don’t be afraid to be foolish.
  • Real life is always better than online.
  • A good friend loves at all times. Period.
  • I’m more interested in your growth than your happiness.
  • I will always be there when you hurt.
  • If it makes you feel uncomfortable, don’t do it, wear it or say it.
  • Challenge yourself.
  • Learn at least one other language.
  • Homesickness never gets easier.
  • We need each other.
  • Bad haircuts grow out eventually.
  • You will love again.
  • The painful truth is always easier than a messy lie.



  •  Jesus loves you, this I know. In my heart, my bones, my soul.  Your Heavenly Father loves you too.  You are a DAUGHTER of GOD.
  • There’s no such thing as perfect.
  • You can always come home.
  • Nothing will make me love you less.
  • Nothing will make me love you more.
  • The mirror is not the boss of you.
  • You’re the most brave when you’re the most scared and keep going anyway.
  • Womanhood is a gift.
  • I’m never tired of being your mother.
  • You will always be my baby girl.




(I changed it a little to make it my own, but here is the original Source: http://lisajobaker.com/2012/07/raising-a-girl-100-things-i-want-to-teach-my-daughter/)

1 comment:

  1. So wonderful to hear those things! What a cute idea. Thanks for sharing Mandy.

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